technically, i started selfshipping with yong-sik on jan 2, 2025, since i started watching the show the day before because of him but i only watched the first two episodes. the next day, i instantly became obsessed with him, and i know it's not that deep, but it makes me extra happy because it was my bday, so he was like a bday present for me and another chance, because i was going through a rough patch with my mental health ;)

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yong-sik genuinely means a lot to me (i'm insane sorry 😭,) he's my fav character ever and it's not a secret that i've relied on him (and ydg too) for my mental health a lot, his death genuinely left me in a terrible state and it still affects me, but well, at least i'm here and leaving that aside, he has unironically helped me a lot in things like improving my self-esteem :]But moving to my boundaries:

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abt doubles!,

as long as we're close enough or we at least talk frequently, i have no problem with seeing other yong-sik yumeships because i love seeing them and he totally deserves all the love !! my problem comes with the people that i barely know and start talking about their ship to me or how much they love yong-sik, i know it's weird but i feel like it is kinda rude to me since i feel like they're turning it into a weird competitionalso sorry if this makes me sound like an asshole, but it's genuinely important to me to know they ACTUALLY understand his character because you'd be surprised to know how many people claim to love him and then they call him things like "a terrible person" 😭also, i'll only block someone if they keep making me uncomfortable after i warned them !!